2. Gun Culture
There are approximately 100 million gun owners in the U.S.
and 300 million firearms. The role of
experienced vulnerability due to fear of crime is known to play a major part in
the decision to purchase guns. For many
such gun owners, owning a single firearm appears to be enough to quell their
fears. But for the 20% of gun owners who
own 65% of firearms, something else seems to be going on.
According to biologist, humans evolved to live in small
groups (50 to 90 max) of individually know others. (This is not true of wildebeest or bears, for
example, but is of wolves.) This, of
course, implies that there must be some survival value associated with such
grouping. That further implies that
there would be some vital costs associated with being excluded from the group;
costs of which we would have some experiential knowledge. That is, we won’t like to be expelled from a
group; we will find it aversive.
Our nation has a long history of defining groups of people
as other, not us, not fully “we, the people.” Examples include Native Americans, slaves,
various immigrant groups, women, gays, etc.
When a person comes to see that they are, or are seen as being, a member
of one of these excluded groups one of the effects is that they also come to
realize that they are, to some degree, on the other side of the police force
barrier. They “get” that the power and
firearms of the police is less likely to be of assistance to them and more
likely to be directed at them. While
many in America have been oblivious to this reality, the recent videos of
police interactions with African Americans vividly demonstrate this fact.
Not being within the perimeter of police protection and,
instead, being part of that which is being protected against inherently
increases actual existential vulnerability. Each person’s self-defined identity regarding their degree of
membership in or out of the dominant culture determines perceived vulnerability to the forces of chaos, and the degree of
protection or threat they can expect from the police. How we see which “we” we are a part of and
which we are not is a fundamental determinant of perceived vulnerability.
This self-definition, though largely subjective, is almost
always powerfully influenced by how we are treated by the people we live and interact
with. This fact is extremely important
because any of the myriad ways we denigrate and mistreat others may become the
basis of isolation and eventual alienation.
We, like all peoples, have innumerable “causes” to reject others. Obvious examples include “race,” gender,
ethnicity, religion, income, and sexual orientation. Subtler ones include virtually any difference
we can perceive between people: physical ability, intellectual ability,
appearance, beliefs, and material wealth.
The essential point is that any of these differences can
become an axis along which social, family, interpersonal, and intra-psychic
forces can propel a person from “in” and
“us” to the periphery, and, eventually, to ”out” and “them”. Shorn of identity, connection, and social
support, and individual’s perceived vulnerability may increase
dramatically.
Let me use one example to illustrate the process. Suppose you are a white male, who, by virtue
of even mildly neglectful or abusive parenting, has a lessened sense of personal
power, that is, your own ability to get what you want in a manner in accordance
with social norms. If “merely” average
in intellectual and athletic abilities, you may find yourself gravitating
towards the lower status groups in school, the crucible of much of
identity. With college not an option,
for whatever reason, your options are severely limited and you take a low
skilled, low paying job. You get married
but, like half of marriages, it fails.
Like is not going according to your dreams. At some point it becomes understandable how
even such a person, who could see
himself as born-into-it member of the
in-group, instead comes to see himself as an outsider. Shorn of the group, the protection of being
in the group, he comes to feel diminished in status, in power, and, maybe, beating
on the barriers to consciousness, an increased experience of vulnerability.
Obviously, what’s possible for a white male is even more
likely for members of any group that’s discriminated against, seen in any way
as other by the dominant culture. Once
again, remember that people abhor the experience of vulnerability and everyone
will look for some way to decrease it. Fortunately,
for them, the wide availability of firearms in the U. S. means they won’t have
to do a hell of a lot more than I did in Vietnam to pick up a gun.
There’s much more that could be said about how “othering”
people leads to increased vulnerability and increased propensity to possess
firearms but one point is critical: It
is an inherently shaming process. As one
comes to see oneself as on the outside, unwelcome in the larger, “in” group, it
is impossible not to feel shame. It may
not be acknowledged as such but it will be experienced. And that’s vitally important because one of
the ways we have of dealing with shame, one, attack others, is the chosen path
of many who are most likely to come in contact with the police.
Shame is such a searing, painful emotion that it’s tolerated
even less than vulnerability. We all
learn mechanisms to quickly and effectively minimize our experience of shame by
moving in one of four directions. We can
withdraw from interaction and/or
society. We can try to avoid shame by presenting and conducting ourselves as though the
very possibility of shame is unthinkable.
We can attack ourselves,
berating ourselves, thereby accepting a smaller portion of shame in hopes of
avoiding being the target of more. And
finally we can attack others, through
blaming, criticizing, put downs, and violence.
I think all of us have some familiarity with sting of shame
that happens when someone with more power than us says or does something
diminishing. Imagine, then, the impact
on the dispossessed when they encounter the police who treat him/her with
indifference, contempt, or violence.
They will feel shame that this happens to them , shame that they can do
nothing about it, and shame that others see this happening will course through
them. Rather than the police providing protection, they get assaulted, and further
expelled to “not us”.
Given this othering, is it so hard to see the attraction of
a gun? Of a lot of them? Can you imagine the relief of finding like-minded
others, a group to be a part of? Can you
feel the attraction of someone to blame for all this, some group that, all
agree, must be stopped by whatever means necessary?
Section 3: Guns and
Us
Although I’ve portrayed three distinct groups-“us”, police,
and “outsiders” I’m hoping you see a bigger picture. I’m hoping you see how all of us are connected
to and interact with each other through the issue vulnerability. All of us are always at risk for death,
disability, and loss. All of us employ
psychological and actual barriers (fences, locks, etc.) to ward off our
experience of vulnerability and it’s overpowering fear. How we do that, however, can not only fail to
protect us, but also perversely create more vulnerability. The police stand at the very fulcrum of this
process.
The police are our
firearms. We deploy them to protect us
from gangs, criminals, “thugs”, violence, and chaos. The police force is our power to coerce
“others” to do our will; to leave us alone, to not hurt us. They are our power to ameliorate our feelings
of vulnerability. Since we, too, are not
immune to the corrupting influence of power, we, too, have become corrupted. We insulate ourselves from our complicity in
any abuse of power by police. We hold
police as “heroes” but turn a blind eye to the harm they do. We
almost always take their account at face value and refuse to find them guilty
when tried.
This creates the paradox that by “supporting” our police to
arduously, we end up paradoxically enabling their brutality. We don’t see how our “support” has the effect
of leaving them on their own and therefore vulnerable to the corrupting
influence of power. We turn a blind eye
to the dangers we expose them to by failing to provide the necessary training,
working conditions, supervision, and oversight needed to protect them from the
threats of their job. We essentially
abandon them, sacrificing them as we pursue our own stuff, status,
and safety. The conspiracy of “support”
by police officers, police unions, prosecutors, and juries, all essentially sacrifice
the police officer on the altar of our “safety.” (Put another way, it may be said that we have
failed to provide them the leadership that is critical to preventing the risk
of damage inherent in the use of deadly force.)
We leave the officers “holding the bag” of moral injury
resulting from what they’ve done. But the
“justification” our support provides can never fully silence the knowledge
–that they keep hidden within--that they have betrayed themselves and their
duty. That, in actual fact, they did
something they shouldn’t have done, whether out of fear, rage, or some other
emotional need of their own. By not
holding an offending police officer truly accountable, we destroy any hope of
reconciliation, repair of the social fabric, and the possibility of
reintegrating the officer into the full society, including it’s softer sides of
inclusion, compassion, and altruism.
In ignoring our own
vulnerability, in ignoring how our deploying the police protects us from
feeling vulnerable, we make it impossible to have a serious discussion about
what it will take to have a justice system that truly protects and defends all of us. In order for that to happen, we have to be
willing to tolerate more
vulnerability in the interest of increased safety. We need to give up the false
sense of security provided by mass incarcerations. Pay for effective rehabilitation and accept
the fact that mistakes will be made. Pay
for community policing and the additional costs of careful selection,
continuous training, and effective oversight such programs require. We need to provide adequate court resources
to truly provide timely trials.
We can agree that our neighbors can provide their own
self-defense in their homes but negotiate the weapons suitable to that purpose
in our neighborhoods. We have to provide
appropriate limitations on the police use of weapons: who to shoot, where,
when, and why while accepting that instituting such limitations will make both
the police and us somewhat more vulnerable.
At the same time, we need to diminish the supply of illegal guns that
are the main source of police vulnerability. Finally, we have to recognize the
inherent vulnerability created by othering people: making them “the other”; not
me, not us, whether based on race, or poverty, sexual orientation, or political
difference. Because this is the first
step in the process that creates the “them” that “justifies” the coercive
policing of “them.”
What I hope I’ve illustrated is that this same dynamic
operates in all of us. All of us have
fears, and fears of vulnerability. All
of us reach for and rely on whatever diminishes fear. And all of us are vulnerable to the
corrupting power of that which makes us feel safer, whether firearms or the
police, alcohol or heroin, denial or cynicism.
The paradox is that our attempts to limit our vulnerability frequently have the unintended consequence of increasing it. Only by all of us learning to tolerate some feelings of vulnerability will we be able to devise democracy
creating, rather than democracy destroying means of dealing with the dangers
inherent in our large, heterogeneous society.
We’re all in the boat.
Thank you. A insightful and it just makes sense.
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